Life is not meant to be easy, fair or in anyway pleasing. There are people who may ignore the idiosyncrasies of life by not getting bothered or may try to live through them, However its very very rare that you find someone who will sit you down and talk to you not only about them, but in fact through them!
Worth of your existence: If you are betrayed by someone, all others tell you is that maybe its just a phase of time, or that person was not good enough and a hundred other things. However no one ever comes and tells us that it is just a matter of time and people are only interested in us for a brief phase of time. A clinical study has just stated the most astonishing fact that no matter how close a person to you dies, within almost 3 hours our minds start to process how to shift the balance of our lives without them.
Nobody Cares: Your problems are yours and yours only! If someone is concerned about them the only reason behind it is that you not being happy or comfortable is somehow affecting their quality of life. Crying about your problems in front of people and discussing your problems does nothing to help you at all. All the calls and messages you get from someone are merely formalities or people trying to be close to you for some reason
You are just a place in Priority List and you may move down:This one has been quoted in many ways and still each one of them is valid today and valid tomorrow! People change- Feelings change – stop expecting from others and much more. Bottom line of the story is that as soon as people you love find someone who can replace you your number will stoop down in their priority list, or worse they may forget you.
Sharing Your Secrets: Sharing your secrets may have more negative effects than you can possibly imagine, people may make fun of you, share your secrets use them against you at a later stage and much more. Also all the people may not be your well wishers and your plans may come under the influence of some evil eye.
No such thing as a SoulMate: There is no such thing as a soulmate, people are with you for a reason and this applies to your partners as well, everyone comes with a expiry date. The tentative time between the beginning of your relationship and that of expiry date depends on number of factors!
All we can say is that take life as it comes and no matter what ever be the situation it is always the brave over the strong who always wins the battle.
