In the most recent episode of Toni Talks, posted on January 9th, actress and internet sensation Jelai Andres discussed the suffering of infidelity, recovering from a shattered heart, and the challenges of having to love oneself.
Andres claimed in a tell-all interview that she experienced mental and emotional difficulties after learning of her husband, Ex-Battalion Jon Gutierrez’s several affairs. In a previous vlog, she admitted that he had affairs in 2016, 2019, and 2021 with several women.
Jelai discussed her hospital visits as a result of anxiety episodes spurred on by her failed marriage to Jon. After much suffering, Jelai declared that enough was enough and that she needed to stand up for herself to survive and stop moping. She then remarked that she had never indeed required a man to make her whole.
“You seem to have passed away. I developed… faith in the sincerity of this individual. He might have only made a mistake. She told the show’s host Toni Gonzaga, “I give a chance.
“I was depressed at the time, so I didn’t get a chance to [confront him]. That was the beginning of it. My throat started to close as I began to get stiff from crying. I am unable to breathe.
She eventually got to the point where her panic attacks required multiple hospital visits, according to Andres. “I’ve faced many challenges, but I never give up because I want to improve myself. Even though I am destroyed, I will also build him. The injection was no longer functioning until I was repeatedly back and forth in the ER,” she added.
Despite her suffering, the 30-year-old actress decided to forgive Gutierrez. Even in 2017, she acknowledged his romantic proposal. “Considering his history of lying, I forgave him. I omitted to say, “Forgive when you can.” Don’t try to forgive when you can’t—considering that you’ll keep returning it. Therefore, you will now struggle with your decision to forgive him, Andres added.
The actress acknowledged that she had felt “blinded” by love but wasn’t “stable,” and she even wanted to “fix” her husband at the time so that she could feel “Awang-awa” with herself.
Toni responded, “When you begin to love yourself, you are once again complete. I don’t require a man’s affection to complete you.
Jelai, with a smile, endorsed Toni’s statement.
Toni commented on what love should be like. Toni and her husband, Paul Soriano, are blissfully married. “It seems that the main point is that love shouldn’t be painful. Love is painless. It is not love if it causes you pain. Love is meant to make you whole. You should be comforted by love. You should find peace in love. Love should provide you with security, she remarked.
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