The wellness mantra that has been doing rounds all along, and been is that it is only what you think about yourself that matters the most, and as much as we are aware of the validity of the statement we still find ourselves being sorry for the tiniest of things that are not our faults or are basic human errors, for being humans!
–Sorry Not Sorry–
Priorities:
These can be anything over anything and you have every right to choose over that what comes over what, and there is absolutely no need to justify WHY. You want to be at home and catch up on sleep rather than having a movie night with a gang, be clear. You want to skip your date night and spend time with your highschool girlfriend, No issues. You want to work and focus on your future rather than going out and chilling, You must! The bottom line is only you get to choose what your time is worth and when.
Decisions:
If you want to let go of a person, because you think they have changed you have every right to. If you do not feel like going and hanging out with a person. Then you shouldn’t! However the right thing to do at this moment would be to say “I don’t feel like meeting you right now” rather than coming up with something and apologising for being busy, promising for a next time and doing the same thing again.
Being Expressive:
We would like to add to the point, about what they say that you should never apologize for the way how you feel, however only feeling something and not being able to express is sure to land you into more problems. If you feel like something is not right you have every right to confront the person in a polite way and list your reasons for the same. However if the person does not reciprocate your concern towards the relationship in the same manner maybe it’s time you reevaluate your relationship.
Me Time:
Staying at your home and spending time by yourself is the most underrated things of all time. This time is avoided when you are trying to please all the people at once and guess what? You fail at both. Staying home to complete the book you have been reading and catching up on our sleep or just spending time with you mom(Yes only mothers are allowed in your free time)
Asking:
If you are asking for a favour, truth or opinion from someone, the first inference to be drawn out is that you trust that person enough for something like that or if you are confronting something it simply means that you value the relationship enough! Not only you do not need to apologise for this sometimes these moments are essential to test Who is worth what!
Apologising for little things that make you – You!
Do well & Live well
