TOO MUCH HELP IS TOO GOOD TO BE GOOD As far it’s concerned helping and giving is a pursuit of one’s character. But sometimes our helpful intentions give way to dysfunctional helping and giving and it brings us lots of dishearten situations. It’s not like I’m influencing here to stop helping altogether; but to set boundaries when telltale signs of unhealthy helping appear. It feels good to please others but you can’t please everyone. I accept that there is an overwhelming appreciative feeling when we help those who attract us with their needs for a helping hand. But trust me, from my experience I can say that this behavior of co-dependence is unhealthy, and often leads to compromise of our own happiness. There is a limit to goodness too. Just because you are guilty of leaving or thinking about others emotions above yours then you are going to suffocate yourself only in this process followed by bottled up feelings of resentment and suppressed emotions. It will eventually blow up your own peace of mind. It’s good to have a spirit of sportsmanship in a team. It gives us chance to socialize and how to work in teams but that doesn’t mean that you do everything and let others take the crown. It’s what we call an act of stupidity and king of being naïve. Its wisely said that “If you don’t take credit for what you do, it is likely that someone else will.” Be vocal about your role when you are in crowd. We all have worked with credit takers at some point in our life and got super frustrated by them. So it is better to be prepared for such situations in advance. Be on your guard and do not be a wall flower. It’s good to work in teams but don’t forget that there is a “ME”. #creatorshala #blogger #creatorshalablogger #influencer #instagrampoet #loveyourself #creator #contentwriter #writingcommunity #instawriters

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Nature is the lovely and attractive world with many beauties and wonders. It is an art of God and the rest of the things in the universe are artificial. It is created by god for the purpose of human beings. Nature is very essential to life and it is very much related with life. In the universe, there is nothing equal to the beauty of nature. In nature, no effort is made to create anything; the beauty on it comes naturally. But human beings are not appreciating it to the full. It teaches many valuable things to human. It teaches man to treat both happiness and sadness alike, in short nature is impressive and instructive. Life and nature are similar concepts, because nature is the study of life. If a person examines the beauty of nature, he may find some parallels in human lives and a nature world. For instance, the falling and ebbing of sea waves can be taken as an example. The falling suggests the ups in the human life and the ebbing suggests the downs of the human beings. The flower and thorns in a rose suggests that life has both pleasure and pains. It is good to spend time in nature, because it provides wisdom and pleasure to human being. There is a saying by John Keats’ that “a thing of beauty is a joy forever.” Beautiful things in the world provide ecstasy to the onlookers. If a person ignores this beauty of nature and spends time in urban areas, it spoils persons’ health and make human feel himself as a machine. So, it is relaxing just to stare at the beautiful scenario like mountains, oceans, waterfall and a dense forest. There is also a saying by Margaret Hungerford that “beauty is in the eyes of the beholder”. Everything in the world will not look pretty to everyone’s eyes, but nature is the only thing which looks pretty and cool on everyone’s eyes. So, nature is the only exception to this saying. It freezes human’s heart and soul, because it is not an art of man but an art of god. It has universal beauty in it which is pleasing to human sense. There is a beauty and mystery in the natural world and it always fascinates mankind. When a person analyzes everything in nature it leads human into a wonder. He will ask himself that was it come by chance or was it created? He will not receive answer, so nature is a puzzle. The beauty is there in nature until it remains a puzzle to readers. If a human truly love nature, he will find beauty everywhere and everything in nature. Nature is full of beauties; human should know to perceive them. In nature, there is a landscape which gives ecstasy to the onlookers and melts one’s stress away; the changing weather and season paints the sky; five elements are there in nature which operates the world; a rainbow in the sky leaps up human’s heart; powerful ocean and it’s waves impress human; mighty trees and vast forest inspire the feelings of human beings and along with that the birds and birds’ song and wildlife makes the world alive and dazzling with beauty and charm. Waterfall which pour from the top of the mountain is an awesome and amazing sight; silver moon and golden cluster of stars shine so bright in night which lights the dark sky; the blue sky offers sunrise which opens the bright day and gives sunset in the evening which welcomes the beautiful moon and its kids which is stars; the heaven provides rain to the world which feeds the earth and makes the land fertile; blossoming flowers decorate the world with its wings of colours. In short everything in nature gives man with a feeling of positive hope. This grand show in nature is eternal and everlasting. Nature is mould with its own beauty naturally without having any effort. Only nature has eternal beauty which enriches the world. The eternal beauty in nature came naturally and no effort is made to create anything. This visible beauty in nature is not only good for one’s eyes but also good for one’s invisible soul and senses. Anyone who keeps the ability to see beauty in nature will also remain eternal fresh forever in their heart and soul. Thus, Nature provides optimistic feel to its onlookers and arrests human minds with its attractiveness. :)))))) #creatorshala #contentwriter #blogger #creatorblogger #naturelove

BOOKS... It changes my life a lot. First of all, I want to tell you something about me. Before reading books, I didn't take any interest in books. Although I was a good student it but having negative thoughts. I was not clear in my life like what I want to be.. why I reading...I haven't any deep knowledge about my family, money or even my studies. I was careless about my board exams during my semester exam I was not serious for that so me and my friend plan to do something different decide studies which might help in future. My semester exam is going to be conducted very soon, but instead of searching about 'How to prepare for exams' we searched what are some books we have to read now which helps in future. We ordered one book, after 3 days, it was my first exam day and my friend came to me and said- '' Hey this is your book, this book is really awesome take it." I completed that book in only 3 days reading unconsciously. I didn't realise how does my semester exams. Books are beautiful. They are different colors and sizes and can be elegantly worn or new and glossy. Some have fancy leather/cloth covers. Very pretty. Books smell good. Old books smell best, but new ones are good, too. Old paper starts to break down, containing compounds found in vanilla and almonds, mmm. Newer paper has the tang of wood pulp and printer’s ink. Books feel good. I like a nice heavy hardcover in my hand, or a soft, worn paperback to curl up with. I like to ruffle the pages. I like the satisfaction of closing it. Books are comforting. I still have several of my books from when I was a kid. Why? They were like comfort objects for me. Growing up, I never went anywhere -not even a different room -without a book. I still never leave the house without one. Just having a book makes me feel braver and happier for some reason. Books hold knowledge. I like looking at my textbooks and seeing how much I’ve learned -it’s so satisfying. I like knowing I can find the answer to a question in one of my books. Books hold adventure. I’ve been to many places in books, some real, some fictional. Most of them are places I will never go, but I feel like I own a piece of those places now, because I have (fictional) memories there. Books hold insight. So many of the things I know about life, I learned from books. A lot of my beliefs have been carefully thought out and defined after reading a thought-provoking book. Books have shaped me as a person. Books hold friends. Long before I ever learned how to make friends, the characters in books were there for me. Whenever I’m lonely or feel like there’s no one there, or whenever I’m going through something difficult, books have characters who feel the same way, and we can feel lonely together. Make your book your friend instead of load :))) #creatorshala #contentwriter #blogger #creatorshalablogger

Heaven is under our feet as well as over our heads. Why do people love nature?! Because nature is the true home for man! I apologize for the virtual yelling…this topic gets me AMPED. Just imagine for a second and recall: That feeling of tranquility that emerges to the surface when you’re surrounded by various shades of green. The constant anxiety that suddenly disappears when you’re listening to the sound of a waterfall, or a creek. Or how about the stimulation of cold, fresh air as it travels through your nostrils and into your body? These are universal experiences that all humans can relate to while in nature. That is the effect that takes place when one steps away from a man made environment, and steps into the natural world. Don’t get me wrong, you can have a good time in the city. There’s tons of entertainment…and boy do I love a good coffee shop. But this is not our intended nature. Human beings do not belong in these concrete jungles that have been designed by man. It blows my mind that we pave most of our land with concrete and asphalt. There is literally a boundary between the human and natural land. And that’s just one out of the many disconnections that we have caused between man and nature. Anyways In one study cited in the book Healing Gardens, researchers found that more than two-thirds of people choose a natural setting to retreat to when stressed. Interesting fact. I wonder why we’re stressed? Could it be due to the modern obligations that are demanded by society? Or how about the fact that we are constantly stimulated by ongoing activity? *cough cough technological increase*. Nature is our go to source for peace, and for happiness. However we spend most of our lives stressed and locked inside. We practically live our lives indoors now. Most of our lifespan is spent inside. We love nature, why do we spend most of our lives avoidant of it? For school, young children and adolescents spend hours sitting at a desk indoors. A child will most likely learn about photosynthesis from pages in a damn book before experiencing physical experimentation with live plants outside. Additionally, the average adult obtains a profession that consists of working inside. Ask yourself, did you go outside on your 30 minute lunch break? (as if that’s enough time for a break lol). We deserve better than this! We are in charge of our lives! Let’s make some changes people. Spend more time in nature, your mind and body will thank you. • • • • • What a (highly necessary) rant. I’m only trying to prevent humanity from turning into a mass of zombies. You can’t blame me. Just Like the Poetry Never Ends in the Earth as Nature is never Ends in Earth. ‘Nature’ is a Power,Nature is a heal,Nature is a Peace,and More eternal ability Nature is Love.Nature has something that no anyone can skip without accommodated even while fresh air by ancillary the soul atleast for a minute in a Day. :) #blogger #creator #creatorshala #contentwriter

Why should I study, for marks or for knowledge? Today the world has become very competitive. Competition is everywhere. It is in studies, sports, job and almost all activities of mankind. But, is competition really giving benefit in the field of education? Let us think about it for a while. Educational competition is everywhere and is growing day by day. Friends compete each other for better marks. Different Schools compete with each other for better result in Board Examinations. Nowadays, we are focusing very much on more marks and good grades. Frankly speaking I am not an exception to it. And how can I be ? If I start neglecting marks, I won't get admission in good colleges. Nowadays it is not odd for a college to set its cut off marks very high. But does high marks ensure that a student have got good knowledge ? Here lies my question and it was in my brain for the last two three days. There are many factors which can lead to high marks without good knowledge. The hot problem faced by education system today is that students study by memorizing instead of knowing its meaning clearly. In some cases, there is a practice of liberal marking. Due to which students get more marks then she deserves. In order to get high marks, a student may also use some unfair means; who knows ? Even a student has secured high marks, by clearly knowing everything written in books, it may not be enough. The second question lies in the implementation of her knowledge. What if the student uses her knowledge only during the examination ? She may answer every question correctly and perfectly and may even score cent percent in the examination. What if she doesn't implement any of her knowledge in day to day life ? She may not be active in co-curricular activities. She may not be smart enough. What I want convey is that; marks alone won't show the ability and talent of a student. Even a student with relatively low marks can be more talented. Over-competition may also prove to be evil. It may ruin the real meaning of education. Nowadays we can see some students committing suicide even after scoring good marks especially in Board Exam of Cl X & Cl XII. We can also see some teachers (not all) teaching students from the examination point of view and not for real knowledge. Now coming back to the question of (very) high Cut-Offs marks for admission I would like to say that it needs a little modification. We should conduct entrance test, instead of believing blindly in the marks. According to me, the current education system is being misused. Some of the colleges in Delhi declaring that the cut-off mark as 100 per cent is ridiculous. “Study should be not for marks but for knowledge. Develop the penchant for gaining knowledge and do not get into the mad rush for marks. Knowledge will stay forever, marks might fade over a period of time". There should be an average cut off mark for the eligibility to appear the entrance test. And most important is that co-curricular activities of students should be considered. This will show how active the student is. So let us learn the joy of learning. Every subject has its own charm and beauty. Let us try to learn lesson in the best way and apply it to our daily life. If we learn the lesson this way then it will be sure that we will pass the examinations with flying colors as marks will be behind us. Thus it won't be good to set marks as the main objective and leaving knowledge behind. Instead of this; let us aim for knowledge. :) #creator #contentwriter #blogger #knowledge