#judgementalpeople

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Ankita Yadav

4 years ago

????? ??????????? How many times a day are you judged by the way you dress or the kind of car you drive? How many times a day do you judge someone else’s appearance or evn the way they talk and walk? At school, university, office or even when walking in a mall surrounded by strangers, the judgement game is never ending. We know that we judge everyone, putting them into categories and on shelves in our head. In our society with difrnt nationalities & ethnicities, we depend on the ability to interact with ppl primarily through sight. Therefore, we worry about our appearance a lot and how people will “Think of us” or “Think of me” if I spent all day wearing this T-shirt or not matching my pants, & women worry abt carrying a well-known brand of bag. Hence, we spend a great deal of time and money tweaking our img to make it more fitting to others. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not against looking good. Bt, a judgemental society is not productive and it kills the creativity in us. Why is that? Because we are comfortable in following trends. Ex; Think about your best friend. If they didn't call you back right away, wld you think it is bcz they are rude or cold-hearted? Probably not. You’d think of the specific reasons, bcz you know a lot abt der situation. Maybe they're stuck somewhere. same like someone who is wearing weird outfit at office, we laugh at them, bt der can be any rsn maybe they are getin late for the office or no iron clothes, it can be anythng. ????????? ?????? ??? ??? ???? ??? ?? ? ????????, ??? ? ????? ???? ??? ??? ?? ?? ????. ?? ?? ? ??????? ??? ???????????, ??????? ?? ???? ??????????. ?? ?????? ????? ?? ???? ??? ????? ??? ?????? ??????; ????? ?????? ?? ???? ??? ????????? ??????? ?? ???? ?? ?? ?? ?? ??? ???? ?? ??????? ??. We shld learn to accept others & try to adapt to them rather than changing them. No two ppl r alike. No two hearts beat to the same rhythm.❤️ #judgementalpeople #judgement #thoughtoftheday#

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