TOO MUCH HELP IS TOO GOOD TO BE GOOD As far it’s concerned helping and giving is a pursuit of one’s character. But sometimes our helpful intentions give way to dysfunctional helping and giving and it brings us lots of dishearten situations. It’s not like I’m influencing here to stop helping altogether; but to set boundaries when telltale signs of unhealthy helping appear. It feels good to please others but you can’t please everyone. I accept that there is an overwhelming appreciative feeling when we help those who attract us with their needs for a helping hand. But trust me, from my experience I can say that this behavior of co-dependence is unhealthy, and often leads to compromise of our own happiness. There is a limit to goodness too. Just because you are guilty of leaving or thinking about others emotions above yours then you are going to suffocate yourself only in this process followed by bottled up feelings of resentment and suppressed emotions. It will eventually blow up your own peace of mind. It’s good to have a spirit of sportsmanship in a team. It gives us chance to socialize and how to work in teams but that doesn’t mean that you do everything and let others take the crown. It’s what we call an act of stupidity and king of being naïve. Its wisely said that “If you don’t take credit for what you do, it is likely that someone else will.” Be vocal about your role when you are in crowd. We all have worked with credit takers at some point in our life and got super frustrated by them. So it is better to be prepared for such situations in advance. Be on your guard and do not be a wall flower. It’s good to work in teams but don’t forget that there is a “ME”. #creatorshala #blogger #creatorshalablogger #influencer #instagrampoet #loveyourself #creator #contentwriter #writingcommunity #instawriters